Transformative Life Coach
Hello everyone, my name is Curtis Daniel and if you would give me a moment of your time, I would love to explain what I can and cannot do for you.
Some of you reading this now may have visited my site before which read completely different than what I am about to say here. I basically went through describing certain situations that you and thousands of others may be experiencing in your life and I promised that what I shared with you could, well, ‘FIX IT’.
I was using sales and marketing techniques to convince you and anyone who would fall for it that I had the answer and it was exactly what you needed in order to get your life in order and become some sort of ‘superhuman’. Don’t get me wrong, what I wanted to offer and what I can share with you, is very powerful and life changing, but my primary approach was marketing for clients, and that’s not who are what I am.
Here’s the TRUTH and nothing but the TRUTH!!!!
“I CANNOT DO ANYTHING TO HELP YOU”
I cannot wave a magic wand and make your troubles disappear. I cannot teach you a formula that will eliminate negative karma in your life. There is no way that I can hypnotize you and cause you to think different about your circumstances and make all the problems go away.
Believe me, I wished I could, but I cannot do any of that for you.
So now, you are probably asking, “What the heck do you do and why are you saying you can’t help me?”
Here’s another TRUTH, and this is the real me and what I am.
I am a proud husband, father, son, brother, uncle, cousin and granddad. In the eyes of the world, I have failed greatly, more times than I care to admit. I have been married more than once because I couldn’t figure out how to do it right the first time. I have filed bankruptcy, lost a house and a couple cars, as well as check myself into a mental hospital. The mental hospital was just one of two choices I thought I had at the time. The other choice was to take my own life.
Why do I tell you all of this? It’s not to get your sympathy, because I have felt sorry for myself more than anyone else could. The ‘poor me’ story above is completely true and only highlights a small part of my life story.
Yes, I am a certified Transformational Life Coach. I have gone through the courses, read the books, studied the material and listened to hours of lectures. I have complete faith and believe in everything I have learned, but none of what I have studied had anything to do with changing my life.
I had to fight for my survival and I dug myself out of the many holes I got myself into. All my successes have not been without huge sacrifice. You see, I could have never chosen to be a life coach while I was literally smothered and choking on life itself. I could not see past my faults and failures, so why would I ever think I could help anyone else?
I would be lying if I said that I was not doing a little marketing here, but it’s not about building myself up as any kind of ‘savior’ or selling a program that will solve your problems and make you happy. That’s not what I am about.
I have recently (literally within the last few days of writing this) had one of the greatest insights and understandings I have ever had in my life. I just realized that every time I was buried in the bottom of my pit of sorrow, I was normally there by myself and alone. Some of you have true friends or family that will climb in there with you, but even they have to set boundaries and limits on what they can and will do for you. The hard truth is, it is solely your responsibility to help yourself.
Here’s what I can offer you…
Don’t expect me to climb into your arena and feel sorry for you or share in your angers, anxieties or frustrations with life. That’s not what you want or need and I won’t do that for you. However, if you choose to invite me into your circle of life, I will show up as a second set of eyes looking in the same direction as you, only with a little different perspective. And just maybe, I will be able to offer some new ideas that you have not seen before and together, you may experience something magical and life changing.
You may find all the answers you need from our first Discovery Session, and that would make me so happy for you. However, I have to be totally honest with you up front. If you choose to continue with a program, it will be like a marriage. By this I mean, if we are not both committed to succeed from the start, then we cannot commit at all. That’s why I call it a Discovery Session. If I don’t feel like I can show up 100% with you all the way through, I will let you know and we can go from there. I expect the same commitment from all my clients as well.
I am in this for YOUR SUCCESS, and I mean that with all my heart. It’s not about me, it’s 100% about you, that’s how I work.
This is the real me, it’s what I am about. Complete transparency with me as well as my clients is how success is accomplished.
The Discovery Session is a true free 1 hour coaching session, NOT A SALES CALL.
I look forward to meeting you.